When you feel truly at home and comfortable in your clothing My opps hate me because I’m a sweetheart shirt, you will forget about it, but know that what you’re wearing looks good on you and that gives you confidence and courage to tackle your goals and dreams. This is why I’m so passionate about helping you discover your authentic style and how you can express this best. We can all appreciate the style of others, admire them for their style, but if you’ve ever copied an outfit that you’ve admired on someone else and felt like it was all wrong on you, it’s because that outfit was authentic to the original, but on you, it’s a poor imitation and a costume rather than an expression of you, as you are not a clone of that person. Your style won’t be authentic either if it’s not an expression of your values as these come deep from your core. If you value “freedom” you will have a very different style (most likely) from someone who values “conservatism”. I’ve developed a process in my Visualise Your Style mini-course to help you both tease out your values and then take them and turn them into garments, outfits and a personal style – that you’d actually wear and feel great in. I’ve never worn a lot of sequins, they are not a regular part of my style, but when I spyed these sequin boots in two of my signature colour in a floral pattern (both of which are both familiar and authentic) I knew that these would become a favourite item and be a great expression of my authentic style. When what you are wearing is inauthentic, it’s because it’s not a representation of your personality and so it can feel like a costume that belongs to someone else quite different from you or that “it’s just not me”. Wearing outfits or clothes, no matter how much the suit your body or colouring that are inauthentic, will never make you feel great. This is why the people who have had a makeover on a TV show end up back where they were pre-makeover if their personality was not included in the decisions about what they should wear, as someone else’s choices are not their choices and they just don’t feel right in the new look. I’ve also seen this many times with clients who have been shopping with personal stylists who are not trained to understand the impact of personality on choices, they end up with clothes in their wardrobe that they never wear because they are inauthentic. When you do this in a fun way, a way that is authentic to you, this allows you to expand your style horizons and try out different things that may be currently unfamiliar to you. Taking a style challenge (like Evolve Your Style) is a great way to play dress-ups in a slightly structured way so that you get the most value from your experiments and through the program materials you will discover what is just unfamiliar but authentic and what is inauthentic and something you never ever have to wear again should you choose not to. When clothing matches your personality, you appear more confident. When you dress consistently with your personal brand image in mind, you are putting others at ease as they can read who you are, and what you stand for (your values, your personality) and it is a shorthand non-verbal language that communicates this quickly. This was key to Queen Elizabeth’s style and is something you see in many other strong personal brands and why style is not shallow.

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Stuck in a style rut? We get it. My opps hate me because I’m a sweetheart shirt Falling into the trap of wearing the same uninspired outfits again and again is all too easy, particularly when work and family commitments start eating into ‘you’ time. Maybe you’ve left your wardrobe to stagnate for so long that you don’t know where to start. Or perhaps you’re beginning to realise that none of your clothes really fit you all that well. Whatever has prompted it, you know it’s time for something to change, and we’re here to make the process of reinventing your style that little bit easier. From full-scale wardrobe clearouts to enlisting the help of a proper barber, we’ve pulled together a list of steps that might help you on the road to a more stylish version of yourself. So sit back, get scrolling, and let us help you unlock your sartorial potential. First things first: if your current wardrobe options aren’t serving you, get rid of them. It can be hard to part ways with things, but be brutal and extract anything you haven’t worn in the past year. This way you can sell your unwanted garments on eBay or Depop, making yourself some cash for new clothes while clearing space in the process. If you’re unsure of which items to ditch, start keeping track of what you wear most often. You don’t have to create an elaborate Excel spreadsheet or anything (unless you want to!). Just start turning your hangers the opposite way when you hang things you’ve worn back up. After a few months, you’ll be able to literally see what has and hasn’t been worn.